Some Small Talk about Having a Threesome

Every couple needs to discuss their relationship status about sexual matters and fidelity before entering an open relationship. For some homosexual couples, fidelity is the rule, while for some couples, open relationship is often established in the beginning of this relationship. Letting everyone to play with other people is the rule in their relationship.

For those couples choose to keep their relationship conservative while still wants to explore something risky, they tend to find another person to play with together. That often triggers the appearance of a tinder threesome hookup. There are pros and cons about having a threesome hookup, just like any other matters.

Some men say that threesome can be a real cheer-up for their relationship and sexual life. It can add something new to their relationship, which is often considered as something good. It is fun and exciting. However, the cons also come along. Jealousy, anger, sometimes, even cheating show up without notice. For couples that prefer to keep their relationship conservative and monogamous, it might be a huge challenge for them if such thing happens out of the blue. What is more, in a threesome, is inevitable that one part of the couple or both of them can be easily attracted to the new comer more and pay more attention to the third, that will effectively ignore the other one. Relationship could also be influenced by it.

If you really want to have a threesome and you also cherish your current relationship, the best way is to make sure that your relationship and sexual life with your partner is very stable and satisfying for both of you. You also need to check the motivate of the desire of you wanting to have a threesome hookup. Couples dating should be something that adds brilliance to your present splendor.

When you are chasing threesome, the other risk is that you or your partner could unexpectedly be emotionally attached to the third person. If the third happens to be the perfect guy you once wanted and he has every personality that you ever dreamed of in a man, what would you do? Letting yourself in love? Such thing is unpredictable and it will definitely change your relationship with your partner. It will bring you some drama and stress and you may doubt your life direction.

Therefore, that is another situation that reminds you to focus on your current relationship and make sure to see if it is stale enough to withstand such challenge. Do you love your partner so much that you won’t be emotionally attracted to another nice man? Do you have such confidence to manage that? Ask yourself. If you think you love your partner so much that no one can threaten it, you may be half way there. You also have to make sure your partner feels the same way you feel. You may be able to make sure things won’t go wrong on you, while you can’t be sure for your partner. Therefore, there are always risks in this matter. Make sure you can handle it and you have such confidence to handle it. Prepare for the worst, right? Wish you have a perfect bi dating.